Talk to toddlers

Many parents are uncomfortable talking to toddlers. These parents sometimes struggle with getting small children to listen, obey and do what it is they are asking them to do. It can almost feel like the parents and the toddler are speaking two different languages. There are, however, a few simple techniques that will help you talk to your toddler more effectively.

As with most relationships, communication is the key. Without this strong foundation, talking to toddlers can become increasingly frustrating. When you speak to your toddler, use simple sentences of four to ten words. Try and complete no more than two or three sentences at a time or your toddler may get lost and choose to quit paying attention.

When you are finished, ask your child to repeat what you just said. If he cannot, try explaining what you want to happen in different words. Always try and use words and phrases that you know your child is familiar with. This will reduce confusion and lead to less stress and frustration. Teach them to listen for the action words, such as speaking, running, talking, etc. When a child is able to effectively determine the overall tone of the sentence, he or she is much less likely to act up out of frustration.

It is also important that you use clear and concise commands. It never helps to confuse your child with additional information that is not needed for them to understand. The attention span of a toddler is very short, so get straight to the point.

These are just a few simple, yet extremely effective, techniques that will help you talk to toddlers and help control your toddler's behavior